The
New Year signals new beginnings; hence we all make resolutions that many break
within a month. For some of us in the PC
family this year really signified a new beginning. Four of us moved sites with the start of 2013
due to various reasons. For me, moving
to a new site about half-way through service has been a mix of positives and
increased challenges.
When
people first asked what I thought about moving sites I didn’t know how to answer. At times it felt like going up a hill on a
roller coaster. Even if you’ve been on
it before, you get excited for the thrill of the upcoming drop. On the other hand I felt like I was a
character in the old Mortal Kombat video games with the announcer yelling
“Round 2. FIGHT!” And you know what? Both of them turned out to be pretty
accurate.
Let
me just start off by saying that PC is right when thinking a site change should
be one of the last resorts to aid volunteers in their service. Yes, there may be instances where it has to
happen which can vary from programmatic to security, but having changed sites I
do firmly believe it should not be a first choice. Not only is changing sites a hassle
logistically, but it also takes a toll on the volunteer.
1.
Being homeless. Changing sites won’t happen overnight. Most of us who changed recently were living
in Gabs (guesthouses, house sits and Kgale View) for at least a month. Living out of a bag for a few days in a lodge
is nice. Doing it for weeks on end is
taxing. Yet this only hints at the
emotional toll of moving villages.
2. Saying goodbye. Even if nearly everything is going bad at site,
there are still a few people or things you have grown fond of in your
village. These things/people are part of
what we use for support and comfort. You
have to let them go. For me, I enjoyed
the work I was doing with the kids at my school, and had some good relationships
with a few teachers I worked with. And
now I have to rebuild those structures in Gamodubu.
3. Starting over. At least for me, changing at half-way, it
seemed all of the projects I started in Kaudwane finally were getting
going. The school garden had gone from
non-existent to having over 20 growing plots.
The PACT club started meeting even with me gone. And other teachers just started taking up some
of the projects I was the lead on. Now,
I get to start that whole process over again.
4. Ok. Passing
all of that, you now have a site, a house and you get to move. This is exciting if only for the sake of
having a place to call home. But then
you reach the final hurdle.
Understanding people. Even if you
didn’t have the best relationship with your counterpart/supervisor/organization,
odds are you knew their work styles and how to work with them. Now you have to learn that with new people. You have to go around and reintroduce
yourself to everyone; explain who you are and what Peace Corps is. This, combined with hurdle three can make it
seem like the time at your first site was wasted.
However,
not all is lost! Even if you find
yourself starting over, many things are going to be easier this time. You have experience working in an
organization, you understand protocol better and you were able to test ideas to
gauge what works and what doesn’t. This
is invaluable and will aid you in getting up and running.
For example, in
Kaudwane it took almost a month to get the PACT club going due to getting
permission, recruiting kids, finding a meeting space, and other details. When I got to Gamodubu I knew my hurdles and
within one week the school and I started 3 clubs. And remember those programs/ideas/activities
that fell flat? I know we all had
something just not work. Well, now you
know better and can focus on doing those that did work. It’s easy to streamline activities since you
already have experience of knowing what failed and what worked. You can cut the bad and focus on making the
good better.
While I do think
a site change was the best choice for me, it was hard to leave Kaudwane. I will miss the kids and the friends I
made. But I’m excited to put what I
learned during that year to use in Gamodubu.
It all goes with the PC motto of having no expectations. You just have to deal with the hand you are
dealt and try to turn that pair of twos into a full house.
As hard as changing villages may be, it may provide a great opportunity for comparison of tactics and culture when you look back at the experience. Despite the current hassle. Glad to read you're still trying to stay positive! But really, poker terms? Euchre is ashamed of you.
ReplyDeleteHey, I can use poker terms if I want. I will still be able to beat you at euchre anyway. Also, what would be a good euchre term to use there?
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